Some people like me, others do not like me. I won’t force anyone to like me though. We are not always liked by everyone and I accept that. The person would need to point out their reason for not liking me though.
It is perhaps mainly because I have a different opinion from some people out there. I am not an opinionated person, purely because I do not keep ramming my opinions down everyone’s throats. I say what I have to say and that’s it. I am always open to listening to what the other person has to say about it though.
You would know that I am harping on and on about something, as I have been re my photographs recently. However, I may raise an opinion now and again and if you do not agree with me, then you are quite within your rights to say “Sorry Fran, but I do not agree with you!” “That is absolutely blooming OK. I will then say, “In that case, let’s agree to differ.” End off! It all depends on how things are said, at the end of the day. If something is said nicely, then I accept that they may be right and I may be wrong. I am not always wrong though but I am not going to argue about it.
I love debating with my daughter Kitty. She is so strong but enormously fantastic at debating. We don’t fall out, but we don’t always see eye to eye all of the time. That is how family life can be sometimes. In fact, it is normal. My daughter has very logical thoughts, therefore we are both interested in what the other person has to say before we dismiss anyone. It is the reason why I love her. Even when she tries to persuade me to see her point of view, I can sometimes turn around and say “Yes, you are right!”
To fall out with someone completely is taking things too far. When someone is adamant they are right and you are wrong, then that can be the heart of the problem. Let that person’s voice be heard, before shouting them down! There is no need to take things to an extreme because someone does not agree. Accept that the person does not agree with you and agree to differ.
I have never refused not talk to someone.
If it means keeping the peace, by not speaking, then it is better than having a stressful relationship. I’m one of those people who like logical answers to straightforward and logical questions. If I do not receive answers, then I am not satisfied.
If someone asked me something, then I would be as honest as I could and I would try to answer their questions as truthfully as I can. It is far better than avoiding the question altogether because issues can be resolved simply by talking and not by behaving childishly.
Frances x
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Frances Rose Agnes Napper (She/Her) 