I would only marry someone whom I was in love with. If a man has to keep going out and trying out other partners, before deciding to marry you, then I would question his motives regarding why he wants to call you his partner in the first place. Could it be to stop you from being in a relationship with another man whilst he is working his way around to you?
Re some men, it’s often a case of not wanting you, because he is not sincere enough, but also making certain nobody else has you, because he has a jealous streak in him, particularly if he suspects that you are interested in another man.
Quite often, a player who likes to date lots of women will pretend he is dating someone ‘nice’ whom he has NEVER dated before so that it stops other pursuers. He may be working his way towards you, however, you become tired of his lies, so you decide to date someone else who is interested in you, and then he gets mad and accuses you of being unfaithful! How on earth have you been unfaithful to him? He’s the one who has left you waiting.
If he has never dated you before and someone else shows an interest in you, and you go out on a nice date with the new guy, is that called cheating? if you become tired of waiting for the Player to make his mind up about you, that is not cheating, if you decide to go out on a date with someone else?
If a player is not interested in a woman to begin with because he is busy being a player, and she falls in love with someone else who is interested in her and her alone, why would she want the player back? There is no way!
If a player makes a fool of you, then you learn to leave the cad well alone.
Ps No I did not mean a Player as in someone who plays a musical instrument. I meant a player as in someone who likes to play the field with lots of different women.😁
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SmileyRose Ramblings by
Frances Rose Agnes Napper (She/Her) 