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God concerns Himself not just with the big, cataclysmic events of life but even those mundane, “invisible” moments in our lives as well

I Give Up!

I can look quite Spanish-looking, however, I have an English accent because I cannot speak any other languages. My parents could only speak English!

I grew up in England only. I am from a Christian background, like both of my parents.

I had to laugh out loud yesterday. It was that funny. Two very English ladies came up to me to enquire what accent the person had, re the lady they’d just been to see. They said they could detect a slight accent, but found the person was very nice.

So I satisfied their curiosity. I then got chatting with them and I ended our conversation by asking them both what accent they thought  I had?  They both hmmed and ah’d.  They both mentioned that I sounded English and that they couldn’t detect an accent at all.

They sounded intrigued, then suddenly one piped up “Hmmm we’re not sure!  So I said, “How about English like you!” And they both laughed out loud as if to say “Amazing, we didn’t think people with your colouring, could speak the English language, like us!”  I give up! 😅🤣

I love singing Carpenter songs. Here I Am singing “Rainy Days and Mondays” as a duet. 

https://www.smule.com/sing-recording/103500888_4887103398

I ❤️  Lavender.

My daughter Lauren and I had a lovely afternoon at the gardens of Sandringham. We had lunch in the large cafe. It was lovely. We were on our way to Sherringham.

Architecture and Grounds: The house is an example of Jacobethan architecture, a style that blends Jacobean and Elizabethan elements. The estate covers about 20,000 acres and includes Sandringham House, gardens, woodland, and farmland.

Location: Sandringham is situated in the village of Sandringham in Norfolk, about 100 miles north of London. It is located in a picturesque rural area, surrounded by rolling countryside.

Function: While Sandringham is a private residence, parts of it are open to the public. The house, museum, and gardens are accessible to visitors during certain times of the year. The estate is also a working farm, producing a range of agricultural products.

Loving my flowers.

The Stilton Cheese Rolling Event

I was full of cold when I went to this event a few years ago. I was on my own and I had the afternoon to spend, taking photographs. 🙂

The stilt cheese rolling event is an unusual and entertaining competition that combines the traditional British pastime of cheese rolling with the added challenge of participants wearing stilts.

In this event, participants race down a hill chasing a round of cheese, all while balancing on stilts. The aim is to catch the cheese or at least be the first to cross the finish line at the bottom of the hill. The event tests not only speed and agility but also balance and coordination, as navigating a downhill slope on stilts is significantly more difficult than on foot.

Stilt cheese rolling events are typically characterized by a festive atmosphere, with spectators cheering on the participants and enjoying the comical and sometimes chaotic nature of the races. It’s a unique twist on a traditional sport, adding an extra layer of difficulty and hilarity to an already quirky and beloved event.

ENGLAND

England- Winners! 😃

Well done to the England players today.

Serbia 0-1 England – Euro 2024: Jude Bellingham scores crashing header https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-13505345/Serbia-vs-England-Euro-2024-Live-Score-Result.html?ito=native_share_article-nativemenubutton

• The Windows of My Soul

  Q. Describe your eyes, SmileyRose?

  A. I have deep, dark, expressive eyes that convey a sense of allure and mystery. They have often been described as captivating and suggestive or looking seductive. My eyes serve as a reflection of my inner self, the windows of my soul.

  https://youtu.be/W-LUosPxTww?si=hFLnfypC_o4UXreT

• Our Religion and Traditions

  Q.

  Should we be able to put Christmas trees wherever we want without worrying about offending people from other religions

  Other religions need to respect our traditions

  Do you agree?

  A. I feel sure that other religions respect our Christmas trees and our traditions. However, do we respect the other religions and their traditions as much, is more to the point. 🙂

• Having A Sexy Personality Has Nothing To Do With The Clothes I Am Wearing 🙂

  Q. What kind of clothes do you like to wear SmileyRose?

  A. That is a very thoughtful question. I generally prefer not to wear outfits that emphasise a deep cleavage, particularly during the colder winter months, as I prioritise staying warm. Throughout my teenage years and as a young woman, I did not wear such clothing. I have always enjoyed dressing in a respectful, elegant, or casual manner. I consider myself to be quite particular about my attire and tend to avoid wearing revealing clothing.

  My preferred company is similar to me in these preferences.

  I prefer the gentlemanly type of guy who is happy to be seen with me wearing elegant and respectful clothing as opposed to heaving blossoms on display. I’m particular in the way I like to look. I am someone who enjoys wearing elegant evening attire for my partner when we are out in public. I believe that sexier clothing should be reserved for one’s partner and not intended to attract others. It is important that a man appreciates you primarily for your personality.

  If he values only your physical appearance initially, the relationship may not be sustainable, as physical attractiveness can change over time. There will always be a much younger woman who has a younger body. From personal experience, having a sexy personality works far better. It has nothing to do with the dress I am  wearing.

  🙂

• Vitamins

  I have been feeling so energetic recently. For breakfast, I drank a strawberry smoothie and a slice of sourdough bread with crunchy peanut butter spread on it. I then had Vitimin D and Magnesium tablets. The vitamins seem to be giving me a lot of energy. 🙂👌

  Recently, I have been experiencing increased energy levels. 👌

  For breakfast today, I enjoyed a strawberry smoothie accompanied by a slice of sourdough bread with crunchy peanut butter. I then took vitamin D and magnesium supplements. The vitamins appear to be contributing to my heightened energy.🙂👌

• My Very First Job Interviev 🙂

  When I was 16 years old and leaving school, I was fortunate enough to secure an interview for my very first job application. The company director was so impressed with my curriculum vitae and the accompanying cover letter that he asked during the interview whether I had written the letter myself. I was honest and informed him that my father had assisted me. My dad was very well written. He read a lot, and his English was outstanding.  Although I did not secure the position, the director of the company advised me that gaining more experience in the workforce would be beneficial and encouraged me to reapply to his company in a few years’ time. I did not pursue this further, but I believe I left a positive impression.

  Both of my parents ONLY spoke the English language, even though they were both born In British India.. None of them spoke any other languages. My father excelled at English literature and the English language. He had Latin classes at the English school he attended. My mum went to an American school, which was where the British attended school, due to them mostly having Indian schools where they resided. If they did not pass their yearly exams, then they remained in the same class until they passed their exams and moved up to the next year.  In India, you paid for your education back then, unlike here in England. 🙂

• Frosty The Snowman

  I’m eating Frosty the Snowman. He is so yummy! 😄

  

• It’s Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas

  It’s starting to feel a lot like #Christmas! I’ve just been to #Notcutts and picked up my Christmas tree. I’ve been getting my tree from there for the past three years – it’s become a bit of a tradition. This year, it’s a little bigger than usual, and I absolutely love it!

  The staff were so very kind and even brought the tree to my car and wrapped it up in netting for me. It made things so much easier when I got home and was ready to unpack it. It just slid out of the car. 😊

• Advent Calendar

  I love my new advent calendar. There are scented candles in each of the drawers. 😀👌 There are scented candles in each of the drawers. 😀👌

  

• “Westlife”

  I’m crying. Wow! I’m watching Westlife at the Royal Albert Hall in concert, at the cinema. It is so good! The female singer Lauren is just fabulous! Such a beautiful voice.

  #IntervalTime

  Omg! When Catherine Jenkins came out to sing “You Raise Me Up”….I cried again.

  The show was just fabulous. 👌

• I’m A Barbie Girl

  Q. Can you remember your first #BarbieDoll SmileyRose?

  A. Yes, I still have her somewhere. I can remember living on the RAF camp at Old Sarum, Salisbury, Witshire. It was during the children’s Christmas party when Santa arrived by helicopter, bringing each of us a small gift.

  He called us by name to collect our presents. I was delighted when I unwrapped mine, as it was my first ever Barbie doll. While most of my friends had blonde-haired Barbie dolls, mine was special because it had my skin colour. The Mattel logo was inscribed on the doll’s bottom. 😁

  I was very pleased—I had a Barbie that resembled me. It was perhaps one of the very first #Barbies I’d ever owned. I can remember my friends all having  blonde barbies, and I felt a little left out. I didn’t moan. But Santa Clause made one little girl very happy that year. 

  Re below: I forgot to mention that at the age of 5 yrs old, I wanted to be a hairdresser when i grew up. I can remember giving my Barbie a haircut. I cried when her hair never grew back! 😉

  I never did become a hairdresser. 🤣

  As a child, I always said that I would never tire of playing with my Barbies. Can you imagine how excited I was at having two daughters. My very own Barbies! Lol, I used to love dressing them in similar outfits. Their outfits often matched mine. We looked like triplets. 😍😁

• A Kind Thought

  A very sweet young mother thought of me when she dropped in to give me this keyring today. #ThankYou for the kind thought. 😇

  

• A Lovely Treat

  I sm having a quiet evening at home with a gin and tonic. 🙃

  

• Milk Time

  I am reminiscing about my childhood. I have recently begun having milk delivered to my doorstep again after all these years. I recall my parents always having their milk delivered. It often made me laugh when the birds would nibble at the bottle tops in the early hours of the morning. I also remember having milk delivered when my children were much younger. The girls used to enjoy collecting the bottle tops and making a caterpillar by threading the tops onto a long piece of string. We combined sharing a glass of milk with fun and play.

  Is Milk nutritious?

  

  Yes, milk is nutritious, as it provides a good source of essential nutrients such as protein, calcium, and vitamins that support bone health, muscle function, and energy levels. However, the fat content can vary, so selecting lower-fat options may help in managing saturated fat intake, which is associated with cholesterol levels and cardiovascular health.

  Lol I can see why I was a milk monitor at school. 😅

• Classical Music – I Love This So Much.

  I ❤️ this so much. 😁

  Frederic Chopin – Les Sylphides, Prelude, Op 28, No 7

  https://youtu.be/jyGo4Snl1S0?si=5X2FTiAwcj8s97aG
• Something Silly!  😃

  Very amusing! I was speaking to someone outside the pharmacy this evening, and when I collected my essentials, I casually wandered over towards my car to drive home. I was sitting in the front drivers seat, and I wondered why my key wouldn’t turn in the ignition. Then I looked out of the window beside me and realised I was sitting in someone else’s car! The vehicle was the same colour and model as my own car, and the owner had left their car unlocked. How weird was that. I felt quite silly! 🤣

• The English Language, Is It On The Decline

  Someone with an orange and white British background: their children are likely to inherit some aspects of that heritage. They might have fairer skin than someone of Indian descent, or they could be darker skinned; they are not necessarily always entirely white, as an example, a person with two parents from Germany and England, each with white backgrounds. Their children are likely to be raised speaking English, especially if educated in England, and because of their English parentage. If both parents speak English, this is generally an added advantage. Challenges are more significant for those with two parents who do not speak English at all. Their children may face more difficulties with learning the English language, particularly if English is not spoken at home. This may partly explain the observed decline in English language proficiency. Speaking English with an English accent does not impact one’s ability to speak the language effectively.

  Just because a person is born in England does not make them proficient  at speaking and writing the English language if their parents could not speak any English . Someone who is born outside the country, who is English, can be proficient at speaking and writing the English language, though.

  Frances x

• Milk

  When my daughters were young, we arranged for milk to be delivered to the doorstep each morning.

  There was never an issue with running out of milk. Milk is an important source of essential nutrients such as calcium, protein, and vitamin D, which are vital for developing strong bones and teeth. It also supports healthy muscle growth and provides lasting energy. For children, particularly between the ages of one and two years, whole milk is commonly advised due to its healthy fats and energy content.

• Every Letter Of The Alphabet

  “The Quick Brown Fox Jumps Over The Lazy Dog.”

  This sentence has every letter of the alphabet. I used the sentence to help me learn how to use the keyboard. I became very quick st typewriting.  🙂

• Breast Cancer Awareness Month

  “Pink October” is the name for Breast Cancer Awareness Month, a global campaign held each October to raise awareness about breast cancer, encourage early detection, and stand in solidarity with those affected.

  #Think pink 💗

  

• Spooky

  Goodness! We had a powecut at work today. We were left in darkness for a few minutes. All of the lights went off, and the computers were down. It was quite #spooky ( Halloween). 😃

• Myths

  Myths often serve to explain the origins of the world, the nature of good and evil, and the reasons behind various customs and traditions. They are typically closely associated with a culture’s religious or spiritual beliefs and may encompass spiritual stories that embody the group’s philosophical outlook.

  Prominent mythologies include Greek, Norse, and Egyptian, which feature well-known figures such as Zeus, Odin, and Anubis. These narratives often focus on heroic individuals like Perseus and Achilles, as well as legendary creatures, including the Minotaur and Medusa. Additionally, significant mythologies originate from Roman, Hindu, and Chinese cultures.

  Key myths include the creation of the world from the navel of Vishnu, as well as the revered Trimurti consisting of Brahma (the creator), Vishnu (the preserver), and Shiva (the destroyer). These narratives also encompass renowned epics such as the Ramayana and Mahabharata.

  Such stories frequently feature prominent deities and beings, including the divine serpent Shesha Naga, the noble bird-man Garuda, and the cosmic serpent Naga.

  English folklore is made up of the myths and legends from England, including the country’s mythical creatures, traditional recipes, urban legends, proverbs, superstitions, dance, ballads, and folktales that have been handed down through the ages, showing the UK’s cultural heritage.:)

• A Creature Of Habit

  Q. Would you say that you are a creature of habit SmileyRose?

  A. Lol Yes! I still use a face flannel in the mornings. I love porridge in the winter. I say words like “Yay” when I’m happy. I love to return to the same places, particularly places around England. Places I love.🩷

• Indigenous Person

  I’m an Indigenous person.

  Indigenous people have a historical and ancestral link to the land that was inhabited before other groups became dominant. 🙂

• British Subjects

  Q. You mentioned British Subject in one of your earlier posts SmileyRose. What’s that?

  A British Subject is a term that has had different meanings over time; historically, it was the main nationality for those connected to the British Empire.

  People born in a British overseas territory after January 1, 1983, may also be considered #BritishSubjects if a parent was a British subject under the BNA 1981.

  This referred to anyone with a close connection to the British Crown.

  Yes, it is true. One of my parents was from a #white background, and the parent was from an Indian background.

  The education in India was very different from what it is today during the British Empire days. They had English schools, hospitals, and Christian churches in India during that time.

  It is true. There was nobody from Pakistan in my family, but most certainly British India, which was very different from India today. It was pretty much like England is today. There were lots of British marrying into Indian families and visa versa.

  This is the reason why I do not understand any of the Indian languages, because neither of my parents spoke a different language, other than the English language.

  I am #ORANGE #BritishIndian and #WhiteBritish

  MyFamily

• Diwali Festival

  I have been asked previously what occurs at the Diwali festival – #Diwali is a widely celebrated festival among Hindu communities worldwide. Hinduism, recognized as the world’s oldest major religion, is one of my personal favourite faiths, outside of my own faith, which is Roman Catholic.

  I also love the Greek Orthodox tradition, especially given my past experience of serving as a bridesmaid for a Cypriot couple. Their wedding ceremony was truly serene and beautiful.

  Diwali is often called the “Festival of Lights” due to the custom of decorating homes, shops, and public spaces with small oil lamps known as ‘diyas.’

  The festival is also observed by Sikh and Jain communities. It typically lasts for about five or six days and is usually celebrated around October or November. Diwali signifies the spiritual victory of Dharma over Adharma, light over darkness, good over evil, and knowledge over ignorance.

  During this time, fireworks are commonly displayed as part of the festivities.🙂

• When Irish Eyes Are Smiling 😃

  This beret still makes me smile. I was wandering around the Peterborough museum when I came across it. I just had to try it on. It had the scarf attached.:)

  

• Soft System Methodology (SSM)

  This morning provided a valuable learning experience. I had the opportunity to learn from my daughter.  She introduced me to Soft Systems Methodology (SSM), which is a systems thinking framework developed by Peter Checkland at Lancaster University. She demonstrated a technique designed to address complex “messy” human problems.

  She assigned a brief 10-minute task for me to complete, which involved creating a Rich Picture—a visual diagram that captures a complex problem scenario to represent diverse viewpoints.

  It was a highly engaging experience, and I found her teaching approach to be exceptional.

  It was all so very interesting.

  I am grateful for the insight and guidance provided by my daughter. Thank you very much, Catherine. I love you 🩷

• Black Or White ? Who cares!

  There are a lot of people who live in England who are from a white parent background and a black parent background. If the child only relates to one parent more than the other, is that child white or black British? Black or white is based on your culture, language, and religion, therefore those children who appear black, but take after their white parent, perhaps because one of their parents was absent from their lives, why are they made to feel like an alien if they don’t understand the black side of their family? What if they are adopted? Black or White, why does it matter if you have all been given a British passport? If the British have a problem with someone’s  colour, then don’t issue British passports! Give them a green card instead!

  Everyone is #British, if they have a passport, surely?

  The colour of your skin should not make a difference to how you have been brought up!

  Should someone spend their lives being a colour or a human being!

  Surely, treating people like aliens, this causes more racial tension. Why not treat people like individuals and human beings instead, and not a colour!

  I am not a colour, I am a human being.

• The Stilton Bell

  I had a super evening at #TheStiltonBell with my daughter #Kitty. The food was very good and we loved the restaurant.

  

• The Royal Air Force

  #SoProud. My dad was a member of the British Royal Air Force for 28 years of his life. He loved the forces so much.

  I was a Scale-E Brat.

  https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1FMGDfGQmB/

  

  

• I Do Wish ……

  I do wish people would give over! I am not my parents! I am me, an individual. People keep posting my background. I am the present!

  I am not anyone who is not #British. I love to visit outside of Britain. I love all around the world, but I am who I am. If I am treated well when I visit outside of Britain, then I will write about it.

  My favourite countries to visit so far are America (California), Cyprus and Spain. I was treated very well in those 3 x countries I have visited. #WithoutADoubt

  Ideally, I would like to travel more. I do not get the opportunity as I am still working full time. There are a lot of countries I would love to visit if given the chance. I do not write about other people’s experiences, only my own. If I feel welcome, then I am happy.

  If I have never visited a place or country, how on earth can I chat about something I do not know about. I am not rich! #NoFirstHandExperiences

• Well Mannered

  How lovely it was to sit at #Costa and listen to two very well-mannered children. I had to turn around and compliment their grandparents. Very often, when my children were younger, their grandparents were often complimented re how well mannered they were.

  My grandmother was often complimented on how well mannered I am. We would often go to church together whenever I stayed with her.  #WhatGoesAroundComesAround

• British English

  Yes! It is true. I am from a British English background!

• Reflecting On Past Experiences

  Recently, I took the opportunity to organise and search through my attic. It’s often surprising what items you rediscover during such a decluttering process. I found some of my childhood memories  “My Tiny Tears,” an old Barbie doll, and a bundle of handwritten letters.

  Additionally, I came across a few newspaper clippings and articles that I had kept.  The photographs brought back many fond memories as well.

  Occasionally, reflecting on past experiences can be a valuable and rewarding activity.:)

• Canal Boating

  During my earlier years, I fondly recall spending time boating on the river at Upton-on-Severn with my aunt and uncle. These outings were truly enjoyable and memorable. Since then, I have been boating multiple times with a different family member and a friend.

  Each experience has provided some of the most relaxing moments of my life.

  I loved those relaxing Sunday afternoons and stopping at a pub for lunch.  I have not been in ages, however Canal boating is tops.🙂

• Damsel In Distress – Home Safe

  Have you ever found yourself sitting in your car, on the parkway, and  feeling uncertain about what to do next?

  This evening, I experienced a moment of panic. My front tyre suddenly blew out, which was quite an unsettling experience. I noticed a burning smell coming from the clutch, and my car would not shift into gear. I felt stranded and alone.

  There was a young woman travelling on a motorcycle who stopped to check if I was okay. She also communicated with other drivers to alert them that my car had come to a standstill.

  During this stressful situation, a young gentleman  named James, who was returning home from the gym, stopped to offer me assistance, along with another individual named Emmanuel. They both helped push my car to a safer location. James efficiently took control to replace the tyre. He was like some superhero. I was impressed with how quickly they were able to get my vehicle operational again. I sincerely appreciate both of them for their kindness, support, and for ensuring my safety this evening. James kindly accompanied me in his vehicle as I drove home, just to ensure there were no further issues. I was so glad to get home.

  Thank you both very much for your assistance and for steering my car to safety after it came to a complete stop.

  Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your help.

  Ps RAC Response times was 5 hours last night. Someone was watching over me.

  I mentioned to James that he’d make a good action hero, lol he mentioned that he had a cameo part in the Gladiators. 😁

• Downton Abbey: The Grande Finale

  

  https://youtu.be/j3_E9qVmrV0?si=SjFBksi-AJOHhyya

  This evening, I attended the Showcase Cinema to watch: Downton Abbey: The Grand Finale. I have been an avid follower of the franchise, and I can say that this final episode did not disappoint.

  It was wonderful to see the original cast members from the first two films.

  My favorite character in the film is Lady Mary. I found it interesting to observe how divorce was quite frowned upon during the 1930s.

  The film starred Michelle Dockery and Hugh Bonneville. It was great to see the tribute paid to the late Maggie Smith, who was a remarkable actress. RIP Dame Maggie Smith.

  I am feeling quite emotional now re it being the final episode. I felt the same when the TV series “Upstairs, Downstairs” ended.

  I highly recommend you watch the film.

  Ps There was one part right at the end of the film that I did not quite understand when the name Sybil was mentioned. I was a little lost. 🙂

  Frances x

• Shall We Dance

  Here’s a film I loved! I starred Richard Gere and Jennifer Lopez

  

• Frozen

  I loved the film and the songs were brilliant.  Y-Rose, Rose. 🙂✌️

  

  https://youtu.be/L0MK7qz13bU?feature=shared

  

  

  Frances

• Me Target Shooting!

  I am a pretty dab hand at “Target Shooting.” You can guarantee that I often shoot what I aim for. I have practised a number of times over the years.  🙂

  

  

  This photograph is of me just a few years ago. The photograph was taken with my camera, when I asked a photographer friend if he’d take a few photos of me, at a spy event. It was such good fun.:)

  It looks as if I am aiming at one huge whale and lots of little followers. 🙂

• JURASSIC WORLD REBIRTH (2025)

  This evening, I attended a screening at the Showcase Cinema, of “Jurassic World Rebirth,” which starred Scarlett Johansson and Jonathan Bailey. It is a film I have greatly been looking forward to watching. The film was exceptional from beginning to end. I particularly enjoy films that feature engaging action, compelling drama, and impressive special effects, and this film delivered on all those fronts.

  I did not realize until the very end that the film was directed by Mr Steven Spielberg, who just so happens to be one of my favourite filmmakers. I have appreciated his work over the years and was fully captivated throughout the viewing of this film tonight. It was excellent, excellent, and excellent!:)

  

  I have photographed the huge dinosaur at the History Museum and at the Peterborough Cathedral over the past few years. Therefore, I was very happy to go and watch this film tonight.

  

  Thank you, Mr Spielberg, for not failing to entertain me with your films over the years. 🙂

  I was also thrilled to bits to hear that John Williams arranged the musical score. He’s superb. 😉

  Frances x

• Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder

  Q. SmileyRose, how would you describe your perspective on beauty?

  A. I consider myself an aging woman and believe that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” Attractiveness can vary from person to person, and I recognise that perceptions of beauty may change as one grows older.

  I have never gone out there and said, “Hey, look at me, I’m wonderful!”  That is someone else’s misconception about me. I very rarely post my young photographs on the internet, just since turning 45 yrs.

  I have a nice personality.

  Frances x 🙃🙂

• Himalayan Salt Lamp – So calming

  I am presently relaxing with some calming music while relaxing by the side of my Himalayan salt lamp, which is known for its characteristic pink-red-orange glow. It is believed to purify the air and enhance mood by emitting negative ions, although scientific evidence supporting these health benefits is limited.

  

  Some people believe that they can purify the air, improve mental health, and help with asthma. But there’s little research to back up these claims.

  I feel relaxed. 🙂

• Orange Frog

  I came across this tiny little Orange Frog when I last visited #SheppertonZoo. It was so tiny. Wonders if is the poisonous orange frog?

  

• Looking Much Better. 🙂

  My block paving appears to look much better. Given the cooler evening temperatures, I decided to go outside and carefully sweep a box of sand onto my driveway. I had to fill and level the gaps between the blocks. It was a time-consuming process, but I am satisfied with the results. I may need to buy another box of sand though. I ordered it from Amazon, and they provided a prompt delivery, which was appreciated.

  Overall, the appearance of my block paving has significantly improved. Another job out of the way, until the next time.  🙂

• “That’s All”

  Me singing this sweet duet

  “That’s All”

  Click Here 😀

  https://www.smule.com/sing-recording/626379833_4296806185

  

• “Materialists”

  For those who know me well, they are aware that I enjoy watching romantic comedy films from time to time. I had not seen a good romcom in quite some time, so I was pleasantly surprised when I watched “Materialists” this evening, as this romcom met my expectations. 🙂

  

  I am pleased to give it a positive review, as I thoroughly enjoyed it. Dakota Johnson, Chris Evans, and Pedro Pascal delivered compelling performances that kept my attention throughout.

  I particularly appreciated the film’s underlying message about the potential risks associated with using dating agencies, especially since I grew up in an era when such agencies did not exist. While these agencies have helped many people find their life partners, it is important to also consider the potential dangers involved.

  Overall, it was an excellent film. 🙂

  You don’t always have to love the richest man on the planet, not if you are not in love with him. 

  Love is not about money, it’s about finding someone who completes you. ❤️

  Frances x

• American Novelist Louisa May Alcott – Author Of “Little Women” and “Rose In Bloom”

  Louisa May Alcott was an American novelist best known for her classic book “Little Women.” I loved both the book, and there have been a few film adaptions over the years. I often wonder which of the sisters best reflects my personality— was it Jo, Beth, Meg, or Amy March?  🙂 It was a profoundly tragic story, especially when “Beth” March unexpectedly passed away due to Scarlet Fever. It evoked an emotional response, reminding me of the challenging circumstances of that era and bringing to mind themes from “The Brontës.”

  “Little Women” is a semi-autobiographical novel inspired by Louisa May Alcott’s own experiences with her three sisters. If you have not yet read the book or watched the film adaptation, I highly recommend it.

  Alcott also wrote “Rose In Bloom” which was a sequel to “Eight Cousins.” The narrative centres on Rose Campbell following her return from travelling abroad. As a person of wealth, she endeavours to discern authentic friendships and romantic relationships from those motivated primarily by her financial status. Additionally, the story highlights the significance of independence and the pursuit of personal purpose beyond considerations of marriage, set against the backdrop of numerous suitors.

  The story is set in the 19th century and reflects Alcott’s views on women’s roles, education, and class differences. friendships and romantic relationships.

  I love this story. 🙂

• Kisses From Me to You 🙂

  

• My Recent Trip To Belton House – Photography Day On My Own

  Please note that my photographs are for viewing only.

  Some years ago, my daughter Catherine and I came to Belton House for the day. They had a child’s dressing up box. Catherine wore a beautiful purple dress. I still have that photograph. I do not know where all of the Belton House photographs from that trip disappeared to as someone only left me with a photograph of my daughter and I. It seems very prejudiced that someone went into my google account and removed them.

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  Frances x

  Here’s a lovely view of Belton House—the striking Grade I listed country mansion near Grantham, Lincolnshire.

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  Belton House

  • Architectural gem: Built between 1685 and 1687 by Sir John Brownlow, 3rd Baronet, Belton House exemplifies Carolean (Restoration) architecture—hailed as the only truly vernacular architectural style England produced after Tudor times .
  • Over the centuries, it remained the Brownlow (and then Cust) family seat until it was donated to the National Trust in 1984 due to financial pressures .

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  History & Significance

  • The estate was utilized during both World Wars: first as an assembly point for the 11th (Northern) Division in WWI, then as RAF Belton Park during WWII .
  • Throughout its long history, the house underwent thoughtful updates reflecting changing tastes—yet the core design remains largely intact .

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  Interiors & Collections

  • Special rooms include the Marble Hall, Chapel Drawing Room, and the Chinese Bedroom with its hand‑painted wallpaper .
  • The collections are outstanding—featuring English portraiture, silver, ceramics, rare furniture, and one of the National Trust’s largest libraries .
  • Unique treasures include a lapis lazuli veneered cabinet and a sophisticated Daniel Delander longcase clock with perpetual calendar .

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  Gardens & Parkland

  • The estate’s formal gardens combine Italian and Dutch styles, including an Orangery and a distinctive Dutch Garden with parterres and topiary paths .
  • The Conservatory, designed by Jeffry Wyatville and built in 1820, is the first garden building of its kind in England .
  • Beyond the gardens lies 1,300 acres of parkland rich with wildlife, including historic fallow deer .
  • Don’t miss the sundial by Caius Gabriel Cibber—featured in the beloved book and BBC adaptation of The Moondial .

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  Film & Cultural Highlights

  • Belton House famously portrayed Rosings Park, Lady Catherine de Bourgh’s estate, in the 1995 BBC adaptation of Pride & Prejudice .
  • More recently, its grounds—including the Italian Garden and Orangery—were used in the Bridgerton spinoff about Queen Charlotte, alongside interior locations like the Marble Hall .

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  Visiting Today

  • Access: Located near Grantham, it’s roughly a 2 hr 40 min drive from London, or reachable by train from Kings Cross to Grantham .
  • Facilities:
    • House tours, gardens, playgrounds, and miniature train rides—especially popular with families .
    • Indoor play café, stables café, gift shop, and a second-hand bookshop .
    • Accessibility support including mobility aids and sensory bags .
  • Timings & Pricing:
    • Varies by season; house, gardens, and play areas have differing open days/hours. It’s best to check ahead .
    • Entry fees available for house, gardens, and park separately .

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  At a Glance

  Feature Highlights Architecture Exquisite Restoration design, largely preserved Interiors Marble Hall, wood carvings, Chinese décor, vast library Collections Portraits, ceramics, silver, rare books, unique pieces Gardens & Park Italian & Dutch gardens, conservatory, vast deer park Cultural Appeal Featured in Pride & Prejudice, BridgertonVisitor Services Play areas, cafés, shops, accessible facilities

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• A Fun Night Out At The Tavan

  It was a lovely evening out at the Tavan. I think I chose the wrong dish from the menu this time around. I have eaten at the venue previously and my food was very good.

  

  

  

  

  

• Harry Potter

  I’m a Harry Potter fan. 😊

  

  https://youtu.be/wtHra9tFISY?si=lQDK01UMeg7PRN8c

• A Blonde Moment

  Me, I’m having a blonde moment. 😁

  

• Freakier Friday and Superman

  I very recently went to watch the #DisneyFilm #FreakierFriday, which starred Jamie Lee Curtis. Lol It was a very “girly” lightearted film. I can remember watching the very first #FreakyFriday film, which starred Jodie Foster. I loved that film too. 😁

  Ps I loved sitting in a reclining chair at the Odeon, with my popcorn. ☺️

  

  I also went to watch Superman last week, which starred David Correnswet. I loved that it showed a sweeter side to Superman, particularly  when he saved a small animal from deaths harm. #SoLovelyToSee.  I really enjoyed the film, although I did miss Henry Cavill. However, personally speaking, I think Henry would make a brilliant James Bond.  😀

  

  Frances  x

• A Sandwich

  I not only like my food to taste good, but I also like it to look presentable.

  This nicely served  sandwich at The Haycock, Wansford, was delicious. 🙂

  

• Me Enjoying The Sunshine, In A Hammock, In Mallorca 🙂

  I wish I was back here, on holiday again.

  https://youtube.com/shorts/xBzSw7Xm5oo?feature=shared

• Lol Me A Couple Of Years Ago! I had Chubby Cheeks. A Discussion About Botox! 😃

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• My Recent Trip To London – Birthday Week

  I had a lovely trip to London during my birthday week recently. I managed to take a few photographs on the day.

  I love what I do. 🙂

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  Boris Bicycles

• A lovely Photography Day

  

• Birthday Treat

  

  I met up with a few old school friends on Saturday evening. It was nice to catch up with them.

  Pizza Da Mario’s in Stamford afterwards was a real treat. The food was lovely. 

  To end the evening, it was over to the George Hotel for a pot of tea before going home.

  It was a pleasant evening.

  F x

• A Walk Around Ketton.

  I had a very lovely walk around Ketton today. It is such a pretty village.

  I stopped at the local shop to pick up a new SD card.

  

  

  

  

  

• I Did Something Stupid!

  Oh no! I did a stupid thing! I went to check the oil in my car, then I went to get some petrol, however I forgot to screw the oil cap back on! It fell out somewhere as i was driving along. So now I can’t drive my car as there will be oil spillage. 😑

  On the off chance I phoned a car firm, just up the road from me, #CarZone and I spoke to a very nice gentleman who managed to phone someone who has an oil cap for the same model as my car. I can’t believe I did such a stupd thing. There are Knights in Shining Armour out there. There really are. 😕

  I’m so stupid sometimes, but at least I thought to check the oil in my car. #StressfulDay