As I mentioned in an earlier post, I am a bit of a foodie. I love eating a nice slice of pork pie and a glass of port, mostly on Christmas Eve, depending on where I am at the time. It is my guilty pleasure.
The below photographs were taken a few years ago. The pie was very delicious, however there was no port because I was feeling quite poorly that year. 🙂
I love my “Oxo” picture because Oxo means “Hugs and Kisses.” 😉
Frances x
Hi. Welcome to my Blog Site.
My name is Frances Rose Agnes Napper. I live in Cambridgeshire and my hobbies are Photography, Blogging, Reading, Music, IT, Social Media, Cinema and Theatre, I enjoy a little bit of cooking too.
I am presently divorced, however both of my daughters have completed University, and therefore they are both adults.
I have two daughters who have both completed university. I am an ex-Scaley Brat, due to my Father being in the Royal Air Force. I am well-travelled as I accompanied my father, with his postings.
That’s me in a nutshell. 🙂
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Please note that I use all of my own photographs to display on this blog. If I use anyone else’s, then I will acknowledge them.
This photograph was taken when I was just 16 years old. I was a fairly shy and reserved teenager. Being fairly shy can vary from person to person, but generally, it involves feeling nervous or uncomfortable in social situations, especially when meeting new people or being the centre of attention. It might mean preferring to listen rather than speak in group settings, feeling anxious about speaking up or needing time to warm up to new people. However, being shy doesn’t mean someone can’t enjoy socializing or forming connections—it just might take a bit more effort or time for them to feel comfortable. These situations describe how I spent my teenage years.
Having said all of that, a person can grow out of their shyness as they mature by having those friends who are caring because they understand how you feel or by having some friends who are a ‘little’ more extroverted, that can help too. Those friends have helped to bring me out of my shell. I am perhaps not as shy as I used to be because I am mature these days. 😉 When you have the right people around you, they can help to bring out the very best in you.
An old friend once said:
Imagine standing in front of an audience. Now imagine them all naked! 🤣🤣
I think I was scarred for life, imagining people I knew, naked, however, it seemed to do the trick and I have never looked back.
My real friends are the people who watch over me, from a distance, particularly as I am now “flying without wings.” They are the people who were there for me when I was younger when they sensed that I was a little shy. Some of those people are no longer with us anymore and I miss them all dearly. Losing friends who have passed away is incredibly difficult. It’s important to allow yourself to grieve and remember the good times you shared with them. Writing this blog is a way of honouring their memory.
Feeling more confident and less shy often comes with practice, exposure, and self-acceptance. Engaging in activities that challenge you, setting small goals, and celebrating your progress can help build confidence over time. Additionally, reminding yourself of your strengths and focusing on positive self-talk can also boost confidence.
If I can do it, then anyone can do it! 🙂
I have never played on my shyness, but instead, I have always forced myself to do things that I find challenging, to help me overcome my shyness.
Frances x
I visited an elderly relative in Stamford today. Yes, it can be tough to witness the people we care about ageing before our very eyes. It’s a natural part of life, but it can still be emotionally challenging to see them go through it.
It’s an opportunity to cherish the moments you have together and to support them through any difficulties they may face. Remember to express your love and appreciation for them regularly and be there for them emotionally and physically as they navigate the changes that come with ageing. It’s also essential to take care of yourself and seek support if you find it difficult to cope with witnessing their ageing process.
Nobody wants to watch what was once a vibrant rose, slowly wilt away.
It was nice to stop off for a drink at the Haycock Hotel later this evening.
I enjoyed a relaxing evening with a refreshing gin & tonic, whilst having a good chat. It was delightful.
Cheers to a peaceful moment!
Frances x
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