Q. Would I ever date an ex partner?

A. I don’t think so. You see that person would be an ex-partner, for a good reason. Even if you loved him once, it would be very awkward to form a bond with him again, once you’ve been hurt by him. Sometimes it is far better to sever all ties and to start again, with someone new.

Ask yourself one question, why did he hurt you? If you have felt a strong and passionate love for someone and then he hurts you deeply, those memories never really go away, no matter what anyone says.

If he has deeply hurt you. Can you forget that feeling? Can you forget how he made you cry and sob on your pillow, whilst you tried so hard to get some sleep? Can you really fall in love with the same man again, after he has hurt you badly?