SmileyRose Ramblings by Frances Rose Agnes Napper (She/Her)

Category: Questions and Answers

Is It A Fair Question?

Apr 21st, 2026

Q. Is it a fair question to ask someone in their late 50’s to late 60’s, where they saw themselves in 10 years’ time? 🙂

A. Asking someone in their late 50’s where they envision themselves a decade from now is a profoundly meaningful question — one that can open the door to heartfelt reflections and genuine dreams. When posed with genuine sensitivity and in a thoughtful context, it becomes a powerful way to connect on a deeper level, honouring the profound life changes and experiences that define this beautiful stage of life. While a 30-year-old might be passionately chasing career milestones, a person in their sixties may be yearning for fulfilment in their lifestyle, cherishing hopes for health, happiness, and the comfort of a well-earned retirement. It’s a question that carries the promise of understanding, empathy, and the beauty of life’s ongoing journey. 🙂
Questions & Answers

Apr 11th, 2026

Q. Do you use/post anyone else’s photographs on your blogsite, Frances?

A. No, I do not use photographs belonging to others; I only share my own work. Sharing images created by others would contradict the purpose of showcasing my own artwork. While I appreciate and admire the art and photography of others, I only ever post my own creations. I remain true to myself and do not claim to be anyone else.

Anyone gaining access to any of my photographs and who posts them on the internet, they all owe me! This is the only place on the internet, where I post my own photographs publicly. The other photographs are private.
Questions and Answers

Apr 8th, 2026

Q. Is your website/blogsite your own?

A. Yes! All of the photographs were all captured by myself. I love photography. It is the only place I display any of my photographs publicly. If my photos are displayed anywhere else, then I want to know why! That person will then owe me!

They have no rights to any of my photos. I have never sold any, not yet! All of the posts on here and on my website are my own.

If I do not get paid for any of my photographs, why should anyone else get paid for any of them!

I do not display all of my photographs on my website. However, neither should anyone else be displaying any of them either! It means that they are private!

The photographs displayed here are for public viewing.

If I choose to display any of my photographs on Facebook or anywhere else, they would be private and appear here on my website first.
Questions and Answers

Apr 6th, 2026

Q. Are you a male or a female?

A. Lol, I was born a female, and I still identify as a female. I have always had very feminine ways. I’m not likely to change sex. I quite like being me. 🙂

During my childhood, I was always very feminine, enjoying dresses and skirts; however, I occasionally wear leggings and jeans for comfort these days, particularly when I am at home . I have generally maintained a feminine appearance, favouring long hair. Currently, my hair is shoulder-length and has a dark brown with reddish hue. Overall, I consider myself to have a feminine presentation.

I do not require anyone else to be me, as I believe I am quite capable of presenting myself effectively.
Question and Answers

Apr 6th, 2026

Q. Do you care about what others think about the way you look Frances?

A. No, not at all. If an individual has a slim physique, they may be regarded as underweight. If they are slightly overweight, they might be considered fat. If someone does not have a favourable opinion of you, they may resort to mockery or ridicule. You can’t win.

When my children were young, I liked the public figures or models who maintained a healthy appearance rather than extreme thinness. My youngest daughter believed she needed to resemble a stick insect to gain acceptance. It is important that children enjoy nutritious meals during their growth periods rather than resort to unhealthy dieting due to media influence. My aim was for them to maintain a healthy and balanced weight. It can be quite concerning for a parent when they notice their child or children not eating properly because they feel pressured to conform to a particular appearance. I was a concerned full-time mother.

Generally, an individual’s appearance is not of primary concern. What is more significant is the influence that media exerts on our children. This may be the reason I have a particular fondness for the 1970s, when there were only four television channels, which were more selective regarding the content they broadcast. During that period, programmes were often of better quality.

Times have changed considerably. 🙂
Questions and Answers

Apr 6th, 2026

Q. Frances, I have noticed that there are some pretty good photographs on your blogsite. Does anyone else have access to any of your photographs, Frances?

A. In a nutshell, “No.” If anyone else has access to any of my photographs, then they are out of order as I have not given anyone else my permission to use any of them. They are for my website only, and NOBODY else should be using them!

I have never earned a single penny for any of my photographs. Nobody has ever offered me money for any of my photographs. Therefore, my photographs are all out of bounds. Nobody should be using them. This is my own website, not associated with anyone else.

Anyone using any of my photos, all owe me. My price, and not theirs!

None of my photographs are displayed publicly anywhere else, but on my blogsite (here). Anyone else displaying my photographs anywhere else, they all owe me! All photographs here are viewing only.

Q. Why do you use a black and white website?

A. Because it is easier to read and the photographs look much nicer on a black background. I notice that you do not ask the same questions to the newspaper publishers! A newspaper is black and white. Please stop being so pathetic re the colours I use here. It has no reflection re my nationality. I like the colours black and white. I am not so stupid, like some, to associate the colour of my photographs or blogsite with my background.

Frances x
Is Apologising A Sign Of Weakness?

Mar 26th, 2026

Q. Is apologising considered a sign of weakness?

A. Apologising is appropriate when an individual acknowledges that they have made a mistake. One cannot apologise for something they are unaware of. Open communication about the matter is therefore beneficial.

You may sometimes accept differing opinions if the matter is minor or if the individual is at fault; in such cases, an appropriate apology should be offered.

If you don’t talk, then nobody ever knows that they have done something wrong.
School In Cyprus

Mar 22nd, 2026

Q. What school did you attend, Frances, when you resided in Cyprus?

A. I attended two British schools during my years living in Cyprus. My father was posted to Cyprus in the 1970’s. He was in the British Royal Air Force. Before my father retirement, he worked in the Education Department.

My educational journey included time at Campbell Junior School and subsequently at St John’s Secondary School. Both schools provided excellent education.

They were exclusively British schools, staffed solely by British teachers. Someone assumed that, having lived in Cyprus as a child, I attended a Cypriot school. However, this was not the case. I thoroughly enjoyed my time in Cyprus and had the opportunity to meet many wonderful people. I was honoured to serve as a bridesmaid at a Cypriot wedding.

I have a great appreciation for Greek culture; however, this does not make me Cypriot. I only resided there for a brief period. During that time, I had some of the most memorable experiences of my life. I also maintain friendships with a few individuals from Cyprus (Greek Cypriots), and we have been in touch and visited each other since our childhood.

I sometimes think about all of those lovely friends I made during my school years and the locals i made friends with. They were special days. 🙂

You may reside in a different country and hold a deep appreciation for its culture without necessarily being from that cultural background. I only lived there during my childhood and still speak only English. Neither of my parents was Greek Cypriot; however, like myself, they enjoyed living in Cyprus.

I returned to England with a notable tan. Residing in warm countries can lead to skin tanning over an extended period. I had a healthy glow upon my return to England, which was quite pleasant.

Aww, I have such a lot of lovely memories.

F x
To Trust Or Not To Trust? That Is The Question

Jan 7th, 2026

Q. Are you very trusting of a partner, Frances?

A. Ooh. That’s a good question. 🙂 It is unfair to assume that an individual does not trust their partner. Trust levels are highly dependent on the individual concerned. If someone is in a relationship and engages in infidelity,

it is understandable that their partner might be less trusting of them. Discovering that a partner has been unfaithful can be profoundly upsetting for those who are in love.

While I was in a relationship with someone, I read the “Fifty Shades” trilogy, which includes some explicit reading that stimulates the imagination. This raises questions about whether engaging with such material constitutes a breach of trust. Where should the boundary be drawn between maintaining trust and engaging in personal interests or fantasies? 🙂
Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder

Aug 30th, 2025

Q. SmileyRose, how would you describe your perspective on beauty?

A. I consider myself an aging woman and believe that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” Attractiveness can vary from person to person, and I recognise that perceptions of beauty may change as one grows older.

I have never gone out there and said, “Hey, look at me, I’m wonderful!” That is someone else’s misconception about me. I very rarely post my young photographs on the internet, just since turning 45 yrs.

I have a nice personality.

Frances x 🙃🙂