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  • I Love Nice People!

    Feb 22nd, 2026

    Why are individuals often judged based on their race? One may be born in England, speak only English, and identify as Christianโ€”essentially identical to anyone else who describes themselves as white Britishโ€”apart from the colour of their skin. Why must people be categorised or segregated in such a manner? This can only lead to hostility. Why can’t we all behave as mature adults and learn to appreciate someone for their kindness, regardless of their colour, gender, religion, or background? One of the reasons we wore a school uniform was to promote a sense of equality, ensuring everyone dressed similarly. If someone does not wish to forge friendships with individuals of a different colour, that is a personal choice, but I am tired of the division into ‘us’ and ‘them’. Some people simply seek to be accepted and treated fairly. I love quality. I love nice people.

    If you did not want everyone living in the same country, why allow people to move here in the first place?

    If you owned a piece of land and someone unwanted, tried to claim it, would you just let them go ahead and take your piece of land? If you allow people to come into the country, you have no room to complain!

    F x

  • Christmas 2025 – Memories

    Feb 16th, 2026

    I was reflecting on some of the joyful moments I have shared with my daughters. The photographs of their smiling faces bring back fond memoriesโ€”Christmas 2025 was particularly memorable because Lauren came home for Christmas. It felt warm, just like the old times. ๐Ÿ™‚ #TreasuredMemories

    For memories are small lanterns,
    glowing in the corridors of time,
    whispering,
    You were there.
    It mattered.

    Hold on to your memories gentlyโ€”not to live in the past, but to warm your hands when the present feels cold.

  • Happy Valentine’s Day

    Feb 14th, 2026
    I love this FAN!

    So beautiful. My daughter arrived back in Australia this morning, #ValentinesDay, after she visited us here in the UK. Her boyfriend looked so pleased to see her as he greeted her with flowers. That is just so beautiful.

    I โค๏ธ  you Lauren. I’m so glad you arrived home safely. Xx

  • That Happy Look ;)

    Feb 8th, 2026

    When you are feeling happy and relaxed, you have that look. ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Valentine Bunny

    Feb 8th, 2026

    Lol, me wearing my cute “Valentine Bunny Ears” a few years ago.

    The 14th February is fast approaching. I have not made any definite plans for this Valentines Day. However, I would admit to being a hopeless romantic.

    I love romance. Here are a few tantalising and romantic poems to get you in the mood for Valentines Day:

    ________________________
    If love had a sound,
    it would be your name
    spoken softly
    at the end of a long day.
    If love had a place,
    it would be the space
    between your heartbeat and mine,
    where the world finally rests.

    ______________________

    I donโ€™t want you politely.
    I want you like fire wants air,
    like night wants the moon
    close enough to touch.
    I want the ache,
    the pull,
    the way my name sounds different
    when itโ€™s on your lips.

    ________________________

    Come closer.
    Close enough
    that my thoughts blur,
    that desire speaks first
    and reason never gets a turn.
    Kiss me
    like this moment
    is the only one
    that matters.

    _______________________

    Stand that close again
    and tell me you donโ€™t feel itโ€”
    the heat rising,
    the way restraint trembles
    between us.
    I want your mouth
    hovering just long enough
    to be cruel,
    just close enough
    to drive me wild.

    _______________________

    I want you slowlyโ€”
    the kind of slow
    that hurts in the best way.
    Eyes lingering,
    breaths colliding,
    every second stretching
    until wanting you
    is louder than thought.
    This is the fire
    that doesnโ€™t rush.
    It consumes.

    ______________________

    Take your time with me.
    I want the unhurried version of youโ€”
    the one who knows
    desire ripens best
    when touched slowly.
    Let minutes melt,
    let anticipation do the work,
    until wanting becomes
    a soft, exquisite ache.

    _______________________

    Your voice finds me
    in the quiet places,
    low, careful,
    as if my heart
    might bruise if spoken to loudly.
    I hold every word
    like itโ€™s meant
    only for me.

    ๐Ÿ˜€

  • The Tap & Kitchen, Oundle

    Feb 7th, 2026

    A lovely lunch at the Tap & Kitchen, Oundle, this afternoon. Good food, good company.

    The venue had a warm feel to it. ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Mango

    Feb 6th, 2026

    I’m eating a juicy Mango. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Mango
  • Pretty In Pink

    Feb 3rd, 2026

    Me just a couple of years ago, looking “Pretty in Pink.”

  • A Mother’s Role

    Feb 1st, 2026

    A motherโ€™s role
    is part shelter, part sky.
    She is the place you land
    when the world feels sharp,
    and the one who gently opens her hands
    when itโ€™s time for you to fly.
    She teaches without speechesโ€”
    how to love, how to fall and rise,
    how strength can be quiet
    and still unbreakable.
    A mother worries in silence,
    cheers in the loudest rooms,
    and carries her children in her heart
    long after, they no longer need her arms.
    And when she lets go,
    it isnโ€™t because love has grown smallerโ€”
    itโ€™s because it has grown brave.

  • The Lion King

    Feb 1st, 2026

    My daughter Lauren and I recently enjoyed a wonderful day in London. We attended a performance of “The Lion King” at the Lyceum Theatre; the production was truly exceptional, vibrant, and we thoroughly appreciated the music.

    Before the show, we had drinks at the Punch & Judy in Covent Garden.

    We dined at the Indian restaurant, Paro, which served a very delightful meal.

    Finally, we enjoyed drinks at the Royal Ballet and Opera House.

    Lauren and I shared this day together, and we created special memories; it was a meaningful time for mother and daughter. ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Netflix Film: Finding Her Edge

    Jan 31st, 2026

    Another Netlix film I really liked.

  • Netflix Films: The Perfect Pairing and A Beautiful Life

    Jan 30th, 2026

    I have watched two fabulous films on Netflix recently. I loved both “The Perfect Pairing”  and “A Beautiful Life“

  • My Beautiful Flowers

    Jan 27th, 2026
    They are lovely and colourful.
  • Narnia

    Jan 23rd, 2026

    The Chronicles Of Narnia – The Magicians Nephew – this 2005 film is a prequel to The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe, later written by C S Lewis. This was my favourite childhood book.

    Narnia
  • Stamford With My daughters

    Jan 20th, 2026

    I had a most pleasant afternoon with my two daughters, shopping in my hometown of Stamford. It had been quite some time since my last visit. Since the passing of Dad and Marion, I have not had many opportunities to return. As a result, we thoroughly enjoyed our walk around the town. We also shared a lovely lunch at the Cosy Club.

  • Netflix Films: “The Life List” and “People We Meet On Vacation”

    Jan 20th, 2026

    I have watched both films this week. Both were very watchable.

  • My Lovey Flowers

    Jan 17th, 2026
  • Yum! Herbal Tea – Caffeine Free

    Jan 14th, 2026

    Yum! I have made a new concoction, which consists of bay leaves, a cinnamon stick, half a lemon, and a teaspoon of honey.

    Boil in a pan of hot water, and then add the ingredients. It’s a soothing herbal tea that is caffeine-free. I love it!

    Fx

  • Haggis

    Jan 12th, 2026
    Yummy Haggis
  • Very Pretty

    Jan 11th, 2026

    I purchased some flowers to brighten up my home.They’re really lovely. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Flowers. ๐Ÿ™‚
  • A Relaxing Sunday

    Jan 11th, 2026

    I had a very enjoyable day in St Ives with my daughter Catherine. We had lunch at a cafรฉ overlooking the Quay and then explored some of the antique shops. It was a very pleasant day.

    I love days like this one. It was very relaxing.

    It was funny. Catherine and I sat down to watch two episodes of “Absolutely Fabulous” this evening. I couldn’t stop laughing. ๐Ÿ˜‚

    St Ives, Cambs
  • The Hunger Games – Catching Fire

    Jan 8th, 2026

    I went to the cinema to watch this film when it was first released in 2013 and I loved the film. It stars Jennifer Lawrence. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Catness – C a Tom Nes Smiley
    I am #Agnes (my middle name). ๐Ÿ™‚

    So, like my daughter and I.

    My daughter and I, 2013.

    Me in 2013 ๐Ÿ™‚
  • To Trust Or Not To Trust? That Is The Question

    Jan 7th, 2026

    Q. Are you very trusting of a partner, Frances?

    A. Ooh. That’s a good question. ๐Ÿ™‚ It is unfair to assume that an individual does not trust their partner. Trust levels are highly dependent on the individual concerned. If someone is in a relationship and engages in infidelity,

    it is understandable that their partner might be less trusting of them. Discovering that a partner has been unfaithful can be profoundly upsetting for those who are in love.

    While I was in a relationship with someone, I read the “Fifty Shades” trilogy, which includes some explicit reading that stimulates the imagination. This raises questions about whether engaging with such material constitutes a breach of trust. Where should the boundary be drawn between maintaining trust and engaging in personal interests or fantasies? ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Just Relaxing :)

    Jan 7th, 2026

    I’m sitting back, and I am relaxing. ๐Ÿ˜Œ

    Itโ€™s that laid-back, no-rush kind of vibe where youโ€™re settled in, comfortably, and you’re just letting time pass easily. Youโ€™re sitting backโ€”maybe on a sofa or chairโ€”remote control or mobile phone in hand, casually scrolling through Facebook without pressure to win or grind. The focus isnโ€™t intensity; itโ€™s enjoyment. Snacks nearby, background music, shoulders relaxed, mind unwinding.
    This feels like switching off stress. Itโ€™s low energy, cosy, and I am feeling content. The goal is to feel good. I’m just chilling.๐Ÿ˜ƒ

  • Happy New Year

    Jan 6th, 2026

    I am unsure about others, but I traditionally take down my Christmas decorations on the 6th of January.

    Religiously and culturally, Christmas decorations are typically removed on Twelfth Night (5th January) or the Feast of the Epiphany (6th January).

    Today marks what I consider the final day of the Christmas period and a fresh start to the new year. I would like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a happy and prosperous New Year 2026.

    Last year was particularly challenging for me, as we experienced the loss of a family member just before Christmas.

    The year has been one of mourning and learning to cope with difficult circumstances. Coming to terms with the loss of loved ones can be a profound challenge.

    As we move forward, I am hopeful for a year filled with better times.

    Warm regards,
    Frances

  • Wild London

    Jan 4th, 2026

    It’s such an amazing programme. David Attenborough is simply the “Best of British.”

  • Whats The Meaning Of Life

    Dec 30th, 2025

    Have you ever pondered the meaning of life? Why do we exist? We all arrive in the world with nothing and, regrettably, depart in the same manner. Will our legacy endure through our children and grandchildren? Surely, there must be more to life than what is immediately apparent. Are we all here for a meaningful purpose? Should we strive to create a better environment for future generations? If only we knew the reason. Why do we exist?

  • Through My Soul

    Dec 29th, 2025

    I cannot stop playing this song. I ๐Ÿฉท it so much.

    https://youtu.be/7K-dsOVQX44?si=8tWjb694MfwbzTPs

  • Netflix Film: The Weekend Away

    Dec 28th, 2025
    The Weekend Away

    I have just watched “The Weekend Away,” and I found it to be highly engaging. It is a thriller that effectively incorporates an unexpected twist. Initially, I suspected one character, but I quickly realised I was mistaken. The final twist was particularly well-executed.

    I would rate the film a perfect 10. I wonโ€™t reveal any spoilers, but I can confidently say it is very watchable. #Netflix ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Netflix Film: The Woman In Cabin 10

    Dec 28th, 2025

    I loved this film. It stars Keira Knightly and Guy Pearce. The Woman in Cabin 10. The film is set on board a luxury yacht.
    In the film, Knightley plays Laura “Lo” is a journalist who is invited on the maiden voyage of the luxury yacht.

    The plot revolves around her witnessing a woman being thrown overboard one night.

    The film is based on the bestselling 2016 psychological thriller novel of the same name by author Ruth Ware.

    I loved it! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Cabin 1 would have been more appropriate, but I enjoyed the film just the same. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

  • Christmas, with my Daughters

    Dec 26th, 2025

    I love my daughters

    Christmas with daughters feels like warmth wrapped in laughter. Itโ€™s the sparkle in their eyes when the lights come on, the excitement as the open their presents, and the way even the smallest traditions feel magical again. Thereโ€™s music playing, wrapping paper everywhere, and a kind of joy thatโ€™s loud, messy, and real.
    Itโ€™s the feeling of  togetherness,
    watching the same movies youโ€™ve seen a hundred times, and hearing stories and questions that remind you how special the season looks through their eyes. Christmas slows everything down just enough to focus on what matters mostโ€”time together, shared smiles, and memories that stay long after the decorations come down.

    My daughters Kitty and Lolly are simply the best!

    My daughters bought me some Australian ginger beer. I love ginger beer. #Bundaberg is exceptionally nice.

    Thank you to them for all of my Christmas presents. I was one spoilt mummy. My favourite perfume and my favourite gin were amongst a multitude of gifts. #thankYou

  • Work Christmas Tree

    Dec 24th, 2025
    Me, a few years ago
  • My Pretty Flowers :)

    Dec 23rd, 2025
    I โค๏ธ these flowers
  • Your Background

    Dec 21st, 2025

    Q. Do you have an Italian background SmileyRose?

    A. Lol, not at all. Lots of people have asked the same question. The answer is no!

    I do not speak any other languages, although I appreciate people who are from a Roman Catholic background, as my family has a similar religious background. My father converted to CofE later in life.

    People often confused me with a female named Fran, who works at the same place of employment as me. She’s a Francesca, I am #Frances. Both of our names were shortened to Fran. She is a dark Italian. I am not Italian at all. ๐Ÿ˜€

  • Favourite Musical

    Dec 21st, 2025

    Q. What is the most memorable musical you have ever watched, SmileyRose?

    A. I have many favourites; however, I particularly enjoy theatre, and my favourite musical is the Victor Hugo adaptation, *Les Misรฉrables*. I greatly admire Michael Ball’s performance as Marius. It’s the 40th anniversary of the production this year.

    I am familiar with all of the songs from the musical and enjoy them immensely.

    1. On My Own
    2. Bring Him Home
    3. Master of the House
    4. Castle on a Cloud
    5. I Dreamed A Dream
    6. One More Day 
    7. Empty Chairs and Tables

  • Avatar: Fire and Ash

    Dec 21st, 2025

    I have enjoyed a delightful day with my daughter Lolly, who is visiting England from Australia. We shared a very pleasant lunch together and later attended the cinema to watch Avatar: Fire and Ash. It is, to date, my favourite Avatar film. 

    Thank you, James Cameron, for creating such an impressive film; it has certainly become my favourite film of the year. The film was highly entertaining, packed with action from beginning to end, and the special effects were nothing short of brilliant. #Fantastic ๐Ÿ™‚

  • A Fun Night Out

    Dec 21st, 2025

    A fun night out at a Christmas party tonight. There was lots of eating and dancing. I particularly liked the band.

  • My Name :)

    Dec 20th, 2025

    Q. What do people call you?

    A. Lol, I get called all sorts.
    My name is Frances,
    Rose, Agnes, Fran, Aggy, Nessy, Effie, AN, although I am mostly Na since divorce.

    I am also SmileyRose, Smiley, Rose, de, FNde and ND

    FRAN is the acronym of my full name, Frances Rose Agnes Napper. It is also my shortened name for Frances

    I was named Agnes after my grand-mother because I was her eldest grand-daughter and her eldest grandchild.

    https://youtu.be/9iPZd_4llCg?si=uX3glPazU7fBrgK8

  • The Windows of My Soul

    Dec 8th, 2025

    Q. Describe your eyes, SmileyRose?

    A. I have deep, dark, expressive eyes that convey a sense of allure and mystery. They have often been described as captivating and suggestive or looking seductive. My eyes serve as a reflection of my inner self, the windows of my soul.

  • Our Religion and Traditions

    Dec 8th, 2025

    Q.

    Should we be able to put Christmas trees wherever we want without worrying about offending people from other religions

    Other religions need to respect our traditions

    Do you agree?

    A. I feel sure that other religions respect our Christmas trees and our traditions. However, do we respect the other religions and their traditions as much, is more to the point. ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Having A Sexy Personality Has Nothing To Do With The Clothes I Am Wearing :)

    Dec 8th, 2025

    Q. What kind of clothes do you like to wear SmileyRose?

    A. That is a very thoughtful question. I generally prefer not to wear outfits that emphasise a deep cleavage, particularly during the colder winter months, as I prioritise staying warm. Throughout my teenage years and as a young woman, I did not wear such clothing. I have always enjoyed dressing in a respectful, elegant, or casual manner. I consider myself to be quite particular about my attire and tend to avoid wearing revealing clothing.

    My preferred company is similar to me in these preferences.

    I prefer the gentlemanly type of guy who is happy to be seen with me wearing elegant and respectful clothing as opposed to heaving blossoms on display. I’m particular in the way I like to look. I am someone who enjoys wearing elegant evening attire for my partner when we are out in public. I believe that sexier clothing should be reserved for oneโ€™s partner and not intended to attract others. It is important that a man appreciates you primarily for your personality.

    If he values only your physical appearance initially, the relationship may not be sustainable, as physical attractiveness can change over time. There will always be a much younger woman who has a younger body. From personal experience, having a sexy personality works far better. It has nothing to do with the dress I am  wearing.

    ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Vitamins

    Dec 8th, 2025

    I have been feeling so energetic recently. For breakfast, I drank a strawberry smoothie and a slice of sourdough bread with crunchy peanut butter spread on it. I then had Vitimin D and Magnesium tablets. The vitamins seem to be giving me a lot of energy. ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ‘Œ

    Recently, I have been experiencing increased energy levels. ๐Ÿ‘Œ

    For breakfast today, I enjoyed a strawberry smoothie accompanied by a slice of sourdough bread with crunchy peanut butter. I then took vitamin D and magnesium supplements. The vitamins appear to be contributing to my heightened energy.๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ‘Œ

  • My Very First Job Interviev :)

    Dec 8th, 2025

    When I was 16 years old and leaving school, I was fortunate enough to secure an interview for my very first job application. The company director was so impressed with my curriculum vitae and the accompanying cover letter that he asked during the interview whether I had written the letter myself. I was honest and informed him that my father had assisted me. My dad was very well written. He read a lot, and his English was outstanding.ย  Although I did not secure the position, the director of the company advised me that gaining more experience in the workforce would be beneficial and encouraged me to reapply to his company in a few yearsโ€™ time. I did not pursue this further, but I believe I left a positive impression.

    Both of my parents ONLY spoke the English language, even though they were both born In British India.. None of them spoke any other languages. My father excelled at English literature and the English language. He had Latin classes at the English school he attended. My mum went to an American school, which was where the British attended school, due to them mostly having Indian schools where they resided. If they did not pass their yearly exams, then they remained in the same class until they passed their exams and moved up to the next year.  In India, you paid for your education back then, unlike here in England. ๐Ÿ™‚

  • It’s Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas

    Dec 4th, 2025

    Itโ€™s starting to feel a lot like #Christmas! Iโ€™ve just been to #Notcutts and picked up my Christmas tree. Iโ€™ve been getting my tree from there for the past three years โ€“ itโ€™s become a bit of a tradition. This year, itโ€™s a little bigger than usual, and I absolutely love it!

    The staff were so very kind and even brought the tree to my car and wrapped it up in netting for me. It made things so much easier when I got home and was ready to unpack it. It just slid out of the car. ๐Ÿ˜Š

  • Something Silly!ย  ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

    Nov 12th, 2025

    Very amusing! I was speaking to someone outside the pharmacy this evening, and when I collected my essentials, I casually wandered over towards my car to drive home. I was sitting in the front drivers seat, and I wondered why my key wouldn’t turn in the ignition. Then I looked out of the window beside me and realised I was sitting in someone else’s car! The vehicle was the same colour and model as my own car, and the owner had left their car unlocked. How weird was that. I felt quite silly! ๐Ÿคฃ

  • Freakier Friday and Superman

    Aug 19th, 2025

    I very recently went to watch the #DisneyFilm #FreakierFriday, which starred Jamie Lee Curtis. Lol It was a very “girly” lightearted film. I can remember watching the very first #FreakyFriday film, which starred Jodie Foster. I loved that film too. ๐Ÿ˜

    Ps I loved sitting in a reclining chair at the Odeon, with my popcorn. โ˜บ๏ธ

    Freakier Friday

    I also went to watch Superman last week, which starred David Correnswet. I loved that it showed a sweeter side to Superman, particularlyย  when he saved a small animal from deaths harm. #SoLovelyToSee.ย  I really enjoyed the film, although I did miss Henry Cavill. However, personally speaking, I think Henry would make a brilliant James Bond.ย  ๐Ÿ˜€

    Superman

    Frances  x

  • Reduced Activity

    Jul 31st, 2025

    You may have noticed a period of reduced activity recently, by me, due to health reasons. Fortunately, I have been receiving excellent care from skilled medical professionals, which is supporting my recovery. My thanks go to them.

    There comes a time when you realise that your own health is important and you need some good advice from the people who know best.

    I do not think I have ever spent so long at home, not going anywhere and just trying to be well again.

    Frances R A Napper

  • Mothers Day  Weekend (Saturday)

    Mar 30th, 2025
    Willow Grange

    I had a wonderful Mother’s Day with my daughter, Catherine, yesterday. It was such a beautiful day. We visited a farm “The Willow Grange,” just outside of Cambridge, where a lady by the name of Charlotte led a candle decoration workshop. Together, Catherine and I decorated four candles each, which I found to be quite therapeutic. The atmosphere was enhanced by calming music in the background. We enjoyed Prosecco and pink lemonade, along with a sweet treat, while engaging in pleasant conversation with another mother and her daughter Lauren, who sat across from us. It reminded me of my own mother and daughter, who sadly could not be with us.

    It was truly a delightful afternoon. Later, Catherine and I explored the farm shop before returning to St. Ives for dinner. We ate at the Ivo Lounge.

    Thank you for my wonderful gifts.

    Today, I plan a lovely day in the garden with some of my lovely treats. ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Thank you for the lovely messages from my daughters this morning. I love you both. ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’ž

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